#extra bad when someone has cats. my mom got flowers for her bday from multiple ppl and our cat obviously started eating them | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

daz4i · 3 months ago

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i don't understand why plants are a basic gift like this feels like smth you should only give someone if you know they're actively looking to get it (and then you should also get a specific type they may be looking for) or if they're already known as someone who likes plants. if i move out on my own and you get me a plant as a housewarming gift i will send you home with it immediately

#wow thank you for giving me... extra work and bugs...#dgmw i get WHY people like it. it's the fact that it's considered a BASIC gift that's driving me mad #bc it feels like a very specific gift to give only to someone who is already interested in it. do you get what i mean here??#extra bad when someone has cats. my mom got flowers for her bday from multiple ppl and our cat obviously started eating them #also weird to me that the other basic adult gift is a bottle of wine. like smth you give someone that you *don't* know well #what if they don't like it. what if they don't drink. how do you give someone a gift that's reliant on taste in any way #i am so confused by the custom of gift giving!!!!! i don't get it!!!!!!! 😭😭😭 none of it makes sense #all of its rules seem to be counterintuitive to any piece of logic i hold i swear.#sorry for being extra autistic today idk what's going on but it is what it is

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